dont know what to do about my neighbour?

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Hi I am a single parent to my 2 children who are 5 and 3, My husband left when I was pregnant with my son so I had to move into a flat, I live above a hairdressing shop and my neighbor lives on the same floor, it is just me and him and we share a stairwell and a front door. He lives alone.

I have been leaving the downstairs down unlocked lately because I had deliveries for christmas coming between 7am and 6pm. I have lived here about 6 months longer than my neighbour and in that time I have never had a complaint and my old neighbour also let the door stairs down stay unlocked as we have very secure doors to our flats anyway and it was easier for post.

My neighbour has lived there for about 10 months and is now starting to complain about the door being left unlocked, he said it wakes him up and started to lock it so all my parcels have started to go to the hairdressing shop... He also called the post office and complained about them putting post through the door. He also called the grocery shop and complained that they used that door too. My flat is hard to find from the back the front is on the main road so it is easier to find and better to use, the back stair well is very steep and made of narrow concrete steps which I prefer not to walk my kids up and down so we use the front door to go to school and stuff... Also he is complaining about my buzzer being to loud and today I forgot my keys when I went on the school run, My Boyfriend was asleep during his split shift ( he doesn't live here) so my daughter rang the buzzer to wake him up and let us in. My neighbour complained about my buzzer being rung. He went down the stairs to the front down, locked it then shook it very hard, which terrified my kids, then he went to the back door of my flat and complained to me that the door should always be locked. I asked him why it was a problem and he told me that since he has no job he likes to stay up til 6am so he sleeps until 4pm and the door wakes him up. Mostly the door doesnt go until midday at the earliest. He smokes weed and I cant have my windows open because it makes my flat stink so now I have to bleach out mold. I have anxiety also and during the night he bangs so loud I wake up having anxiety attacks.

I would move but I can't afford it and I have used what little money I have left over to make this place really lovely for the kids, We live on a main road with shops and their school is only up the road, this is perfect for us I really dont want to move, what else can I do?? I tried to find out his letting agency but my letting agency do not know and there was not really any help they could offer me... any advice welcome x
thanks Leanha but unfortunately money doesn't grow on trees and I cant afford the deposit and 1st months rent for a new place right now. My tenancy doesn't run out for another 6 months either and I cant afford to buy myself out of it. I never had any problems for the whole time I've been here.
also I live in the south west which is over populated and is hard to find a property up to par and in my price range so moving isnt as easy as that x
haha marcus no i wish he did he might be quiet during the night then.. he plays heavy metal music through the night and plays his guitar.....

Answer
This guys a prick, watchh the Duplex with Ben stiller haha. I know i have a sleeping disorder and if someone wakes me up at 5am (which really is an unacceptable time) i cant go back to sleep and i still dont treat people this way.,

hes sleeping till 4pm(its not like he works a graveyard shift), and expects the world to orbit around his ridiculous sleeping schedule. Next time he pulls a stunt like violently shaking the door call the cops for disorderly conduct, with children involved they wont take it lightly. I know its a low blow, but hes a lazy scum bag, and obviously has no respect for you or your children.

Also avoid confrontation when alone with this guys, sounds like he has anger problems

I'm confsued about Wicked (1998)?

Ryan

I began watching Wicked on Lifetime, and then fell asleep about halfway through. I woke up and saw the murder of the main character (the creepy 14 year old) and then the whole thing with the mask and the little girl crying at the very end.

So, I'm confused. Is the little girl the murderer? and if so, why? I think I missed something :p

Answer
Here's actually how the whole story goes and this might make more since, 'cause I own the movie myself:
The 14 year old girl, Ellie (Julia Stiles) is obviously an outcast as she gets picked on at school, is rejected by the neighborhood kids and denied attention from both her parents. Her Mother is having an affair with the father and we immediately see ( within the first 10-15 minutes of the film) that Ellie knows all about it, due to the spying she does through the cemented wall between their houses. Since Ellie resents her Mother for her love affair, rigid nature, and complaint about everything she does, she kills her the same morning her Mother pushes one too many of her buttons by disapproving of her make-up that her own Dad had bought her. We, as an audience are tricked because of all Ellie's crying and false greif until near the end of the movie, it is made CLEAR than SHE murdered her Mother because near the end of the film, she opens her pink suitcase, in which she fantasized about using as a runaway accessory, and pulls out her Mother's wedding ring and Greek drama mask. You'll notice Ellie used the sad-face drama mask to muder her Mother, because her Mother put in in such depression and angst. Later after Ellie's father, Ben and Lena get married, Ellie's younger sister, Inger finds Ellie's pink suitcase and discovers the bloody mask inside, only to be in shock of what her sister has been hiding all these past months. Inger soon decides that she has had enough of Ellie's anger, selfishness and bratty nature and kills her to avenge her Mother's death when Ellie is momentarily disabled because of the glass shard impaled into her foot, this time using the happy-face drama mask, because according to Inger, getting rid of Ellie was a happy change and a drastic improvement in the family's life: no anger, hostility or teen chaos. Once Lena finds the mask in Inger's school bag hours later, she automatically realizes that Ben is now in danger, in which she will be too if she doesn't warn him in time about his next murderous daughter. Lena covers her mouth in incredible shock and the film just ends there, most likely because of how crazy poor Lena went after realizing she has ANOTHER wicked little girl on her plate. After all, it is strongly suggested that Inger inherited her now dead sister's evil and persistence to kill whenever and whoever when not getting her way.

I hope this helps!!!!<3

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