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Q. i have asked a guy in year 9 out well my friends did for me. And i really like him what should i do to get him to like me.... Any answers...??? HELP!!!!!
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i guess you mean 9th grade freshman in high school if in usa . you can not make anyone do anything unless they want to. however you can influcence them by what you say do or act while around them. by the question this guy is either older or younger than you . you don't let us know your age or grade status so hard to tell you if its appropreiate or not. say if your a 6th or 7th grader it may not be approperiate. if an 8th grader it would be more approperate or slightly older a 10th grader that would also be approperate by most . there are exceptions to all rules of thumbs though.
1st off does he know you personally
2nd why send a friend to ask him out for you , he'll wonder why
3rd if send a friend they should be gathering info for you such as "do you know my friend so and so
what do you think of her? she was talking to me other day and she mentioned she like to get to know you. that kind of things
however it seems tha cats out of the bag so when you friend ask was it positive or negative. or non commital type answer such as " i don't know"
are you nice looking enough to where he might like your looks (not that you have to be a super model or anything) but alot of guys likes girls who are pretty. (also take into account that beauty is in the eye of the beholder ) what one guy may think is average another would think was stunning looking.
while around him if your not to shy of a person do alot of flirting any kind as longas its obvious to him your flirting . depending on the guy ,many guys don't reckonize body language of girls so they think a girl that flips her hair off her shoulders as her doing just that , not that that is a subtle flirt of her trying to get himto look at her (face /hair she justflipped)
Body language messages are sent automatically and unconsciously. Women send approximately five times more body language messages and gestures than men in the same time period. Women read body language much better than men. Men make a lot of mistakes in displaying their body language and make it easy for women to read their intentions.
Body language has proven to be our most reliable indicator of how others feel about us. For millions of generations, body language has been one of our best tools for successful survival and mating. Since humans learned to speak, we have switched to paying more attention to verbal messages and frequently ignore body language messages. This is unfortunate because unconscious body language messages are accurate and truthful. Words often are not truthful. When two people are relating to each other, the body language messages reveal how each person really feels about the other from minute to minute.
Body language comes from reflex responses deep in the limbic system part of the old brain. Most unconscious body language deals with survival and passing-on our genes to future generations (i.e. getting sex). Habitual body language that worked for survival and mating has been perfected and repeated for millions of generations. Women and men today are still using much of the same body language to attract a mate that their ancient ancestors used. Background Discover More . . .
Women's Flirting Body Language Revealed!
The most common way women flirt to attract a man's attention is preening. Tossing their hair around, stroking and combing it, and generally moving it away from face and shoulders to expose soft bare skin are strong signals that women use to get men's attention.
Another great preening move men enjoy watching is for a woman to do things calling attention to her mouth. Licking her lips, putting on lipstick, or eating something slowly with obvious great pleasure is stimulating to men. Just watching her mouth makes men hungry for the smell and taste of all of her stimulating and delicious pheromones.
Entwining her legs draws attention to being a woman. Men can't do this because their hips are too narrow. However, in this case it indicates not only that she is a woman but also she is closed to sexual advances from men. Her tight leg muscles indicate she is very protective of her private area. However, to most men her tight leg muscles are appealing and they are his challenge to untangle.
Slowly crossing or uncrossing her legs while gently stroking her thigh is unmistakable female flirting body language. Another great move is for her to adjust clothing with loosening, opening or exposing movements to call attention to her body. If she is clever, she exposes some bare skin in the process. This is where the guy accidentally misses his mouth and pours his drink in his lap while trying "not to look".
When sitting with legs crossed, bouncing her foot back and forth rhythmically while dangling one shoe off her toe signals much more than, "My foot is tired and I want to go to bed!"
When a woman rubs her neck or head with one hand, while talking to a man, it raises her breast toward his face and makes him fail to hear most of her
i guess you mean 9th grade freshman in high school if in usa . you can not make anyone do anything unless they want to. however you can influcence them by what you say do or act while around them. by the question this guy is either older or younger than you . you don't let us know your age or grade status so hard to tell you if its appropreiate or not. say if your a 6th or 7th grader it may not be approperiate. if an 8th grader it would be more approperate or slightly older a 10th grader that would also be approperate by most . there are exceptions to all rules of thumbs though.
1st off does he know you personally
2nd why send a friend to ask him out for you , he'll wonder why
3rd if send a friend they should be gathering info for you such as "do you know my friend so and so
what do you think of her? she was talking to me other day and she mentioned she like to get to know you. that kind of things
however it seems tha cats out of the bag so when you friend ask was it positive or negative. or non commital type answer such as " i don't know"
are you nice looking enough to where he might like your looks (not that you have to be a super model or anything) but alot of guys likes girls who are pretty. (also take into account that beauty is in the eye of the beholder ) what one guy may think is average another would think was stunning looking.
while around him if your not to shy of a person do alot of flirting any kind as longas its obvious to him your flirting . depending on the guy ,many guys don't reckonize body language of girls so they think a girl that flips her hair off her shoulders as her doing just that , not that that is a subtle flirt of her trying to get himto look at her (face /hair she justflipped)
Body language messages are sent automatically and unconsciously. Women send approximately five times more body language messages and gestures than men in the same time period. Women read body language much better than men. Men make a lot of mistakes in displaying their body language and make it easy for women to read their intentions.
Body language has proven to be our most reliable indicator of how others feel about us. For millions of generations, body language has been one of our best tools for successful survival and mating. Since humans learned to speak, we have switched to paying more attention to verbal messages and frequently ignore body language messages. This is unfortunate because unconscious body language messages are accurate and truthful. Words often are not truthful. When two people are relating to each other, the body language messages reveal how each person really feels about the other from minute to minute.
Body language comes from reflex responses deep in the limbic system part of the old brain. Most unconscious body language deals with survival and passing-on our genes to future generations (i.e. getting sex). Habitual body language that worked for survival and mating has been perfected and repeated for millions of generations. Women and men today are still using much of the same body language to attract a mate that their ancient ancestors used. Background Discover More . . .
Women's Flirting Body Language Revealed!
The most common way women flirt to attract a man's attention is preening. Tossing their hair around, stroking and combing it, and generally moving it away from face and shoulders to expose soft bare skin are strong signals that women use to get men's attention.
Another great preening move men enjoy watching is for a woman to do things calling attention to her mouth. Licking her lips, putting on lipstick, or eating something slowly with obvious great pleasure is stimulating to men. Just watching her mouth makes men hungry for the smell and taste of all of her stimulating and delicious pheromones.
Entwining her legs draws attention to being a woman. Men can't do this because their hips are too narrow. However, in this case it indicates not only that she is a woman but also she is closed to sexual advances from men. Her tight leg muscles indicate she is very protective of her private area. However, to most men her tight leg muscles are appealing and they are his challenge to untangle.
Slowly crossing or uncrossing her legs while gently stroking her thigh is unmistakable female flirting body language. Another great move is for her to adjust clothing with loosening, opening or exposing movements to call attention to her body. If she is clever, she exposes some bare skin in the process. This is where the guy accidentally misses his mouth and pours his drink in his lap while trying "not to look".
When sitting with legs crossed, bouncing her foot back and forth rhythmically while dangling one shoe off her toe signals much more than, "My foot is tired and I want to go to bed!"
When a woman rubs her neck or head with one hand, while talking to a man, it raises her breast toward his face and makes him fail to hear most of her
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In 2010, when I was a school student in Kazakhstan, I went to the USA as the participant of a summer school program. There were 6 of us, and our instructors strictly prohibited our boys to help American girls with their heavy bags and to open doors for them, since they might be offended.
Can anyone explain what is offensive about that?
Louis, of course they are capable, but if it's much easier for a guy to carry that bag, so what's the problem? She'll do something nice in response too.
Or do American men do it like: "Hey! You cannot carry that bag yourself, can you? Lol what a p*ssy! Give me your bag, you piece of crap!"
I didn't notice that in the USA, to be honest, most of the guys were quite normal there in Washington DC.
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I duno but I think that's harsh, im an English guy but I would have helped you or any woman struggling with their heavy bags, to me its part of being a man and you should respect woman in that way .... even if I got in trouble for it, I would have helped any girl struggling with heavy bags and fu*k who tells me I can't ..... theyd have to stop me :)
hey babe - add your naughty piggy back please - I was deleted :( but I got those besties first *hugs you and clings on*
I duno but I think that's harsh, im an English guy but I would have helped you or any woman struggling with their heavy bags, to me its part of being a man and you should respect woman in that way .... even if I got in trouble for it, I would have helped any girl struggling with heavy bags and fu*k who tells me I can't ..... theyd have to stop me :)
hey babe - add your naughty piggy back please - I was deleted :( but I got those besties first *hugs you and clings on*
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