Sunday, August 25, 2013

How do I get over high school?

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The Skinny


I graduated last year (2012) and since then I can't stop thinking about it. I can't keep thinking about what went wrong, and how I could've done better. I didn't have a good middle school experience either, but I'm not as obsessed with it as I am with High School...

I wasn't traditionally "bullied", but I was ostracized and outcasted for reasons I'm still trying to figure out. I keep flashing back to things people have said to me, and how misunderstood I was.

Fall of 2012, I went to a VERY local community college, at first I loved it, but then I noticed all the people(from high school were attending) that disliked me (the feeling was mutual) and I became a wreck again. I did not attend that CC for spring semester (2013) and I am now in the process of transferring to another CC in the next city over.

I think it would be best if I surrounded myself with new people, and I could start over on a good foot.
I don't care about having a "network" I'm kind of a loner...



Answer
Things aren't black and white. Your close friends wouldn't appreciate it if you distanced yourself from them because they are from the same "mixed bag" of high school jerks. Maintain close relationships with your close friends with highschool, yes, you may have to consequently hang out with THEIR friends who went to the same highschool, which of whom you don't like...but this is the adult world, people have to hang out with people they don't like in the office, at church, at the neigboorhood bbq, ect..they act fake nice with each other and they mutually understand they don't like each other, it's BS adulthood.

While I HIGHLY recommend your don't START OVER, you should expand your network and not keep all your eggs in the high school basket.

Remember, you don't have to be friends with all of your friends friends, just tolerate their company and act polite. You need to maintain your long standing relationships. If your tired of the catty BS and gossip, try not to overgeneralize and assume it's simply the popular thing to do in your high school...as you all get older the number of chatty cathys and "mean girls" dwindle..those who remain in those categories are the losers who have crap jobs and marry ugly unsuccessful men.

Do people in France actually wear this brand of bags?




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They called "Longchamp". And almost everyone at my school has a longchamp bag. They like this:
http://totebagstyles.com/goods-115-Longchamp-Le-Pliage-Folding-Tote-curry.html. Some kids say that they're all the rage in Paris. True or not?



Answer
they were all the rage two years ago lol

you see them A LOT less now, but yes, they still are popular - chic and not expensive with the most popular models being between 80-100â¬

other than that it's very french brand. one of the strongest brands here on the market. but beat your friends to it and get yourself a hermes bag :) it'll cost you a fortune but in about three years from now on, when we'll see them as much as louis vuittons right now, you could tell everyone "that's so 2012"

i've even seen some guys with the hermes ladies' bags. they're simply so trendy right now :D




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